To be the greatest salesperson, I must first be able to sell myself on myself. That is the foundation Haanel constantly points back to – the inner world creating the outer. I can see that truth, and yet I know I’m not fully there.
Just like point number one on the Blueprint Builder states, I know I can achieve the definite purpose of my life, and I commit to doing my best. I believe in my abilities. I know my purpose is real and attainable, and I’m willing to work toward it with persistence and intention.
But does that mean I’m ready, in this moment, to stake everything I have on it? To burn the ships completely? Honestly, not quite yet. But I’m confidently moving in that direction.
One practice that helps is reading an obituary every morning. It sounds morbid, but it’s incredibly grounding. There’s something sobering about seeing the names of people who passed away around my age, people who expected to have more time.
I’m asking myself: Would that person trade places with me right now, even with all my problems, fears, or doubts? And the answer is almost always yes.
That perspective shift alone is enough to jolt me back into gratitude. Because gratitude isn’t an effect but a cause. It creates clarity. It creates momentum. And it dissipates fear.
Winning is a habit – and unfortunately, so is losing. Coasting through a day, taking time for granted, assuming I’ll “get to it later”… that’s a losing habit. Successful people simply do the things unsuccessful people unconsciously refuse to do.
Not because they’re superhuman, but because they recognize their opportunity. Time is our one and only non-renewable resource. Successful people choose intention over drift. They choose discipline over distraction. And every small choice compounds.
I’m learning to choose better. To sell myself on myself, consistently, courageously, and consciously.



Deanne, I love your upbeat honesty about selling yourself on you! You remind me how empowering it is to commit. Thank you for sharing your bright spirit!
Wow. Just wow. “Coasting is a losing habit” and “successful people do the things unsuccessful people unconsciously refuse to do” – lines I’m writing down! The obituary practice is intense but makes perfect sense. That perspective shift from “someday” to “today” is everything. You’re not just moving confidently in the right direction, you’re lighting the path for others. Thank you for this! 🔥👏
Excellent post, Deanne! You are doing the work and in shifting your perspective, finding more wisdom.