MKE Week 12 – Bear Hugs

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The lessons from week 12:

From Mental Diet ‘Bear’ to Irresistible Force: Week 12 Master Key Power Surge

Once you’ve been doing the work—and the voice that screams “quit” is a constant companion on this uphill climb—then you know we’ve been engaged in some serious inner surgery with no anesthetic.

We committed to rewriting our old programming, shedding that “concrete” that society poured over our potential, and becoming a slave to good habits.

Now, as we hit Week 12 of the Master Key Experience, we aren’t just building habits anymore; we’re moving from kindergarten to middle school in our spiritual and mental development.

We’re transitioning from persistence born of discipline to a true mastery where our desired ideal becomes absolutely irresistible.

This week is all about leveraging the power we’ve uncovered over the past two months. I feel like I’m setting the stage for a massive payoff. It starts with recognizing that our biggest roadblocks are often simply misunderstood laws of the mind.

Taming the Mental Diet Bear with Substitution

For weeks, we’ve been running the Mental Diet, acting as the “watchman” to our subconscious, or subby. To be honest, sometimes that diet feels like trying to wrestle a bear.

Negative thoughts—, anxiety, discouragement—are powerful forces that constantly try to pull my desired accomplishments further away.

But the liberating truth I learned this week: The Mental Diet is not a wrestling match; it’s a substitution game.

The key is the Law of Substitution: we cannot hold two thoughts simultaneously. The instant a negative thought enters your mind, your strategy shouldn’t be to fight it—trying to fight darkness just gives it more energy. Instead, you replace it immediately with a positive, established truth.

Bear Hugs Kettle

Think of the “Bear Hugs Kettle” analogy. If a bear grabs a boiling kettle, the natural, untrained reaction is to squeeze harder, which burns him more, forcing him to squeeze until he dies.

That’s what we do with negative thoughts—we squeeze them, fight them, and they burn us out. The only solution is to apply the Law of Substitution and let go. Immediately substitute the negative thought with your DMP, an affirmation, or a fond memory.

This practice proves that you, and ONLY you, are the “watchman” to subby.

The Three Pillars of Invincibility: Knowledge, Courage, and Faith

The Master Key Part Twelve lays out the essential three steps required for success: Knowledge of your power, Courage to dare, and Faith to do.

Knowledge alone doesn’t cut it; it must be fertilized with a living purpose. But here is the magnificent part of this progression: Practice diminishes the amount of faith and courage you need.

When we diligently apply the principles, we gain greater clarity and emotion, which naturally reduces our reliance on raw courage.

The ultimate goal of this focused work is to combine thought and love to create an irresistible force. Love—defined as the Law of Attraction—is the feeling that imparts vitality to thought.

I like how this ties in to the 2nd scroll in Og’s book. When your thought is impregnated with love, it becomes invincible. This internal engine, fully fueled and running, makes you unstoppable.

This combination creates an irresistible intention inside you, impelling both the intention and the necessary resources to move toward one another. Intention governs attention. When your intention is set by the union of powerful thought and emotion (love), your attention naturally aligns, carving new pathways to achievement.

Reprogramming for Victory: The Flash Card Power-Up

To accelerate this process and solidify our new mindset, Week 12 introduces a massive leverage point: The Flash Card Project.

We are actively shifting our focus from the natural “negativity bias” we’ve carried, which caused us to constantly use the red pencil on our failures, to a powerful “positivity bias.”

This involves actively remembering our successes and all the things we did right—thousands of them!

I’m working on the assignment: Write out a minimum of 50 cards (70 suggested). These cards should be broken down into two piles:

1. Cards detailing things you did right.
2. Cards listing your positive qualities.
3. Duplicate your affirmations, ensuring one of each is in both piles.

The power comes from the execution: Flash through some or all of them once a day—this takes only 10-20 seconds. When you read your affirmations aloud, shuffle the deck. The key is to re-live those successes using all five senses.

Remember how the scent of a loved one can instantly transport you back to a point in time?. We are applying this power to our future success. Bring the intensity, smell the victory (like smelling the ocean in Vancouver Island when heading out early to catch salmon), and drive that image deep into subby.

This simple daily exercise is leveraging the Law of Growth. Whatever we think about grows. By continually flashing our successes and our future self—we are growing an irresistible masterpiece within.

Training Your Brain in the Mind Gym

We are also actively training our physical brain to think, create, and change. The Mind Gym exercise is a clever way to accelerate your ideal by engaging both hemispheres of the brain. We know that the left and right sides aren’t separate, but compliment and combine.

I started practicing this in the gym this week as I did my warm ups, punching and kicking with opposite arm and leg.

This exercise is designed to create multiple combinations quickly, turning your brain into a workout center. It requires cross-lateral movement—touching your left hand or elbow to your right knee, or vice versa—while focusing on your shapes and DMP.

Importantly, you must lift your right foot when moving the opposite side, as right-side movement engages the left side of the brain, and vice-versa.

This Mind Gym exercise is profound because it’s fast and instantaneous.

Just like how having a mentor helped me learn complex casting quickly, and stopping the reel from turning once the weight hit the water, avoiding the frustrating “bird’s nest” of tangled line by sticking to enduring principles, this exercise provides a precise technique to accelerate learning and connection in the mind.

I’ve watched a lot of anglers struggle with this over the years. It can be frustrating.

The Final Oath: Fully In

Apparently we are in the final leg of this phenomenal commitment. The four core habits we’ve cultivated are now combining to produce profound persistence. We are actively changing our Scroll reading (now eliminating the word “will” and focusing on the feeling of taking charge).

This was one of my struggles in writing my DMP.

We are living by the compass, not the clock, scheduling dates with our family and the world within.

The Master Key experience isn’t about mere theoretical knowledge; knowledge does not apply itself. It demands application, practice, and the commitment to be fully in until the change comes about.

The payoff is coming January 25th. Until then, we keep digging in, focusing on that irresistible combination of love and thought, and feeding our subconscious the steady diet of success, power, and happiness. We are fully in till the change comes about.

The Takeaway: You can’t fight darkness, you must turn on the light.

Use the Law of Substitution to replace every negative thought instantly with the affirmation: “I am whole, perfect, strong, powerful, loving, harmonious and happy”. This is the scientific truth we are programming into our masterpiece.

Do it now.

Meet Ray Yenkana

Ray is a persistent, real estate broker,” the hard working nice guy” and has been for over 40 years. His work is recruiting and training agents and sales.

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  • So many insights in this one post. I will come back and revisit it again because you touch on so many aspects of this program. Thanks for sharing.

  • Ray, this is powerful momentum.
    You’re directing the mind!. Week 12 reads like mastery clicking into place: substitution over struggle, love fueling thought, practice turning effort into inevitability. You’re fully in, fully aligned, and the force you’re building is fabulous!

  • Powerful post, Ray. “You can’t fight darkness, you must turn on the light.” That’s the whole game. The Law of Substitution isn’t a suggestion; it’s the scientific tool for the final leg. Fully in. No more bird’s nests. Onward!

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